April 16, 2015 sistatalks

Ready For A Ring? Find Out What Men Look for When Choosing A Wife

5. True commitment

Fidelity and loyalty is an absolute must for men. Men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship.  The misconnection here is that women think that all men want is makelove, and that men will leave a relationship for the next prettier face. Women believe men cannot be trusted to be faithful and that when the going gets rough, they disappear.  Be aware of subtle cues at the beginning of a relationship that might prove that you have a wanderer on your hands.  What does he do with his spare time?  What kind of influence do his friends have on him?  Is he easily susceptible to peer pressure?  These questions challenge his confidence and true being and allow you to determine if he is a great catch, or if you should throw him back with the fishes.

6. Nurturer

There is a reason why so many men, when little boys, ask their mothers to marry them.  Men love to be nurtured.  Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. Men would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what they do right, more acknowledgment that they are great guys who are loved and appreciated.

7. Not trampy.

Men want a hot woman to show off, not a tramp who might hit on his friends or embarrass him in front of his family.  Remember, this is marriage material, not dating material.  At the beginning of courtship, a woman should refrain from making any comments that are overtly sexual because she is still establishing who she is and making her first impression.  This doesn’t mean any flirting, and it just means that too much overly sexual language will land you a man for that night, that’s for sure, but not for the long haul.  It’s important to flirt, smile and laugh while you give him attention, and even touch his arm or leg, but nothing too aggressive. When the relationship gets more serious, and presumably more intimate, sexual touch and public displays of affection are more appropriate and will less likely scare off a man.  Of course, every man is different, but remember always to be yourself when you meet a guy.

Article source: madamenoire.com