Another important thing to consider is why you’re marrying him. Why do you want to tie yourself to this man for the rest of your life? Why are you in a love relationship that you’re not sure about?
Your love causes pain or makes you to second guess your fiance or yourself
How to Know if You Should Marry Him
I think A’s situation is a perfect textbook case of how to know you should not marry the guy you’re engaged to! All love relationships are rocky and take work. But there’s a difference between natural love that needs nurturing, and tormented love that is destined to fail.
A few weeks before I got married, I was scared and uncertain. But, I never doubted my fiancé – he was the last person I had doubts about! I doubted myself. I was scared I didn’t know how to be married, that I wouldn’t be a good wife, and that I was committing to something bigger than I could handle. In hindsight, I see that my fears were normal – and even healthy.