Are You Chasing Him And Don’t Know It?
2. Initiating Other “Friendly” Contact
Sending him a cute card
Dropping by his house
Dropping by his gym
Calling up his friend
…Or in any way attempting to initiate some kind of contact.
3. Moving Things Forward
Making suggestions, making plans and then inviting him to come and join you, offering to drive to him, offering to drive on the date, offering to put him up for the night on your couch, or in your bed…
Offering to cook for him, initiating makelove, initiating affection (in any way other than smiling with an open heart and body), initiating the “talk” about “where the relationship is going,” getting anything having to do with the relationship “started”…
Creating a “special occasion,” sending him anything (pictures, mementos, ideas), thinking out loud to him about things you can do together, telling him about things you can do together, and creating things to do together…
…Or, in any way, acting as the social director of the relationship.