How Do You Know If You’re Chasing?
Here are some things we may think of as “friendly,” that are actually CHASING a man:
1. Calling Him Up
Calling him because you heard or read about something interesting, or because you knew there was a great band playing somewhere, or someone told you about some great event that you want to invite him to or – anything at all
Calling him to ask him why he hasn’t called you
Calling him to tell him you’re upset that you haven’t heard from him
Calling him to give him directions to your home or answering any question he hasn’t specifically asked, or giving him any information he hasn’t specifically asked for, or offering anything
This does NOT include:
You’re having a problem or an emergency, and you can’t reach a friend or a relative, and you’ve been dating him long enough that he’s started “future-talking” about things he’d like to do with you and places he’d like to go with you, and you need his help.
Don’t be afraid of appearing weak. If you need something-something of course that has nothing to do with the relationship – don’t be scared to ask. This is what being a girl is all about.