April 14, 2015 sistatalks

Are You Chasing Him And Don’t Know It?‏

Are You Doing Any Of The Things On This List? If So, You May Be Pushing Him Away
Could you be chasing after a man without even realizing it?

I know how frustrating it is to sit back and let a man drift away. Every single one of us women instinctively wants to run after a man, grab him and throw him to the ground, rather than let him get away.

We know we’re not supposed to be chasing after him, and yet it’s so hard not to. In this new, modern era, we’re all confused:

We all get the lines between friendship and romance blurred
We think being “friendly” is the same as showing interest in a man
We’re taught to think that reaching out to a man is necessary
We’re taught to think that if we act “casual” a man won’t notice that we’re actually chasing him
But, the truth is, we are.

If we’re feeling just “friendly,” if we really don’t feel attracted to, or interested, in a man, then WHATEVER WE DO, our “vibe” will be just “friendly.”

But, if we actually ARE attracted to a man, if we ARE interested in him in a romantic way, and then we try to ACT “friendly” – it’s going to come off as fake.

It’s going to come across to him as inauthentic. It’s going to come across to him like chasing. And, it’s going to make him feel all kinds of things, but none of those things will be what you want him to feel – an attraction for you.