April 15, 2015 sistatalks

9 Things You Should Never Say to Men

8. It’s just a work

If your man spent a few days trying to accomplish an important project, but his boss said that it’s a total failure. Don’t tell him “it’s just work.” Men appreciate their jobs, especially when they do something they are passionate about. You can tell something like, “Next time your boss will definitely notice your work,” or “Life is unfair, so maybe your boss had a bad day and your project is actually great, but he didn’t notice it because of his bad mood,” “Or don’t give up. You will do it better next time. You are strong, and I believe in you.” Support your partner, and he will cope with any problem faster.

9. You will never become successful

If your man has a sweet temper and he can’t take serious decisions without asking for your advice, it’s tempting to say, “You are a man, you should be brave, confident and successful. You will never become successful because you’re born unlucky.” Don’t say it no matter what. Not only will you ruin your relationship, but you will also make him believe that he’s really unlucky. Support him, motivate him, inspire him and help him, but never reproach him.

Building a strong and healthy relationship is never easy. It’s important to understand your partner, support him, love him and help him become happier. He, in his turn, should do the same. If you are in an unhealthy relationship, it’s better to end it now. However, if you date a man and want to tie the knot with him, avoid saying any of these 9 things. Do you agree with this list?