April 12, 2015 sistatalks

8 Signs He Doesn’t Love You

The sooner you recognize and accept that he doesn’t love you, the sooner you can break free and fall in love with someone who can give you the love you deserve.

Speaking of deserving a healthy, happy, strong love relationship – here’s a quote to think about: “We accept the love we think we deserve.” – Stephen Chbosky.

Are you staying with a man who doesn’t love you because you believe you don’t deserve anything better? Men come and go, but your relationship with your self is the most important relationship you’ll ever have. It doesn’t matter if he loves you; what’s most important is whether or not you love yourself enough to pursue a better, happier, healthier life.

You’re searching the internet for signs he doesn’t love you. You are the best judge of your relationship! You know your partner intimately, and you know when something isn’t right. If you’re searching for articles that will help you figure out if he’s in love with you, then he’s probably not. If you could face the truth about your relationship, what would you do?

You don’t trust him. If he cheated on you, but you can’t forgive him, then you may be picking up on signs that he’ll cheat on you again. Lack of trust is a warning sign that he doesn’t love you, and you need to pay attention before it’s too late.

He isolates you from your friends and family. Abusive men do everything they can to ensure their partners don’t spend time with loved ones. If your boyfriend or husband doesn’t want you to be with people who are important to you, then he doesn’t love you. It’s a sign of a bad relationship.

He steals from you – and uses you. Did you know that borrowing money without paying you back is stealing? So is using your car, gas, and other items without some sort of fair trade arrangement. If he uses your body, mind, and possessions without giving anything in return, then he does not love you the way he should.

He doesn’t support your dreams. If your partner doesn’t encourage you to set and pursue your goals, if he doesn’t support your wildest hopes and dreams for your life, it’s a sign he doesn’t love you. If he doesn’t want you to succeed or achieve, then he does not love you. He’s dragging you down.

He lies to you. Maybe he’s not lying when he says he wants your relationship to be different… perhaps he wants to change, but he can’t. Or perhaps he is telling you lies, and maybe you keep believing him because you’re scared to be alone. Here’s an article I wrote about men who “talk the talk” but don’t “walk the walk”: When He Says He’ll Change – But Never Does.

He doesn’t listen to or respect you. Do you feel heard in your relationship? Does your partner listen when you talk, and communicate how he feels and what he thinks? This is the foundation of a healthy love relationship! Maybe it should be one of the first signs he loves you: he respects you, hears you, and values what you say, believe and think.