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This is one that can benefit you as much as him. Men are the traditional initiators, and even if your man isn’t the one to make the first move, chances are he sometimes feels like he should. If you don’t tell him what you like, he’s just flying blind. In fact, if you haven’t complimented him he might even think you don’t like what he’s doing. And of course, the more you tell him you love it when he scratches your lower back, or runs your fingers along your chest, the more he’ll do it.
That woman just checked you out.
Yes, this helps his self-confidence. But it also tells him that you just saw another woman looking at him and you’re not afraid to tell him. It shows that you’re confident enough to know that he won’t be lured away by another gal. Plus, what guy can resist the thought women are giving him the once-over?
We all like to be right, men included. And you know what? Sometimes they are. It probably happens less often than he thinks, but when he is right, it’s nice to tell him, especially if you were arguing. Sure, it might make you feel a little sheepish, but it’s worth it in the end. It’ll make him feel good, and showing that you’re a reasonable creature who can admit when you’re wrong will help temper future disagreements.