April 21, 2015 sistatalks

5 signs that your man is cheating on you

If you find out that your man is cheating on you, what will you do? Have you ever thought about it? Well, it happens to a lot of couples, and there are plenty of reasons why this happens. First of all, a man cheats on his wife when he doesn’t feel emotionally connected to her. Right, because men are more emotional than women (yes they are) and when they feel insecure or that their wife does not appreciate them, then they seek for it to another lover. Men sometimes need to be treated like children: they need love, support, hugs, they need someone to guide them.
A man may cheat on his wife when he feels bored, too. Women usually “forget” their men and spend less time with them because they are busy with work, kids, shopping, housework, etc. Men need their women’s attention and love if they don’t get it when they find love to someone else.

Furthermore, men need to be treated like winners. They need rewards for everything they do or achieve. When wives don’t care about their men’ achievements or don’t even thank them for something, then men start feeling down. It is normal; everyone would feel so. This could be a reason why men start cheating.

It is weird, but men won’t start cheating because they met a woman more beautiful than their wife. No! They need support. Beauty doesn’t matter. They fell in love with someone not because she is beautiful, but because she is kind, sweet and supportive. This is very important. When you are “a model” but you don’t appreciate your man, and you are not there for him, then he won’t care about you, too.

After all these, you start wondering if your man cheats on you, right? There are some “signs” that show this. Check them out:

1. He is away from home most of the time
2. He doesn’t make love to you that often
3. He doesn’t answer your phone calls
4. He criticizes you more than ever
5. He talks about his new colleague all the time: how nice she is, smart, cooperative, etc.
Think about all the above. Your man cheats on, and you find it out. How would you react? Remember that you are a couple. Maybe it’s your fault that he did this to you. And if you are married, then things are more serious than you imagine. Try not to be unfair and think twice before you act.