April 7, 2015 sistatalks

5 Signs He’s Not The One

4.  No Common Values
To successfully share your life with someone, your fundamental values must be in alignment. Love does not conquer all. If you are not fundamentally compatible, you will face major hurdles ahead.

Everyone’s values are different. For some, their values will be rooted in religion. Other people value a strong work ethic, some value a commitment to a healthy lifestyle. I’ve seen very serious, long-term relationships end because one person couldn’t deal with the other’s lack of ambition or motivation.

If his values oppose your own, then this relationship is either going to be fraught with turmoil or you’ll have to make some serious compromises.

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