April 12, 2015 sistatalks

4 Ways to Tell if He is Lying About His Affair

How your husband talks can be a sign of lying
Wives know their husbands; if he changes how he usually talks or behaves, then he might be cheating or lying. If he doesn’t usually speak in a high pitch or swiftly, then he’s trying to hide something.

What he says – specific statements – are indications of lying about his affair
When a husband says, “I know you think I’m lying” – they’re saying I’m lying. When they say “You may not believe me, but I’m telling the truth” – then they’re telling the truth. Lying husbands tell the truth, cushioned in lies. (Note that this can’t be 100% accurate because if a man knows this, he’ll change the way he speaks, right?).

Your husband’s nonverbal body language is a sign of cheating
The driver calls this the “belly button rule.” When we’re telling the truth and are with people we like, admire, and trust, we face our belly buttons towards them. When your husband is lying about cheating, he’ll turn away from you – and you know he’s cheating! If their belly button faces the door or exit, it’s because subconsciously they want to leave or escape. Also, a shoulder shrug should never accompany a definitive statement. The driver said never to believe verbal statements over nonverbal body language. Also – wrapping legs around leg of chair is a sign of restraint, of holding back, and not being honest. Leaning away from you is a sign of a cheating, lying husband because we lean away from things we want to avoid.

Emotional reactions to questions can be a sign of cheating and lying
If you confront your husband about your suspicion that he’s having an affair, and he gets angry, defensive, or overreacts emotionally, then it’s a sign that something’s up. The driver also mentioned that lying husbands tend to laugh nervously or make accusations towards their wives.

Is He Lying to You?
In Is He Lying to You? An Ex-CIA Polygraph Examiner Reveals What Men Don’t Want You to Know; Dan Crum reveals the two most significant signs of deception, the best way to trap a liar, and what to look and listen for when you suspect your husband is lying about having an affair.

A  complicating factor about affairs is the difference between physical and emotional cheating. If your husband is best friends with a woman and leaving you out of the relationship, it may be an emotional affair. Read Emotional Affairs Vs. Innocent Friendships to learn the difference between the two types of cheating.

Why do you suspect your husband is cheating – what are the signs he’s lying to you? I welcome your comments, but I can’t give advice. Sometimes writing your thoughts can help you work things out, because it can bring clarity and insight.