March 19, 2015 sistatalks

10 Behaviors That Keep You Single

Are You Getting In Your Way?
If you are single, but would rather not be, I am sure you have given significant thought about why. I know what you’re thinking: Why is it that you don’t have a man yet certain people around you seem to hop (sometimes effortlessly) from one relationship to another? Well, one answer is it may not be your season. For many, it is as simple as that.

However, for others, it’s actually the right time, but they’re practicing the wrong behaviors and essentially standing in their way. (Now, before you get upset with me, listen.) Here are ten things I have personally witnessed my single female clients and friends do that keep them single. Are you guilty too?

You Hold On to Someone Who Isn’t Available
There are many reasons someone may not be available to date. Is he separated or married? Perhaps he is living with his girlfriend? If you hold on to such a person, fully knowing you are shared with someone else, you illustrate the lowest form of self-love, and that won’t get you where you want to go.