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6 Signs You Need To Let Go Of The Man You Love

When a relationship isn’t meant to be, it just isn’t said to be.
That’s a concept that a vast majority of us have to learn to stomach – no matter how hard it might be. Just because a relationship is off to a great start doesn’t mean that it’s going to be destined for a happy ending. It doesn’t work like that. There are just too many factors to take into consideration when determining the strength and longevity of a relationship. Sometimes, even when the love and effort are present, the relationship still fails to go all the way. And as sad as that might be to comprehend, it’s the truth – and we all have to come face to face with the truth if we want to be mature about it. Read more

I’m Marrying My Long-Distance Boyfriend, Even Though I Know It’s Going To Be Hard

“So, you have my number. Text me.” I wink and turn to walk out the door with my friends into the humid Boston night. I can’t keep the grin off my face. I have a good feeling about this guy, and I know this is going to be something.

I’ve lost count of how many times that scene played out for me. In my group of friends, I was always the one looking for a relationship. I wanted more than casual dating or a fling. I wanted the Holy Grail: unconditional love. Whether I met a guy in a bar, on the street, online, or through friends, I always thought it was going to become something. But it never did. From the time I was 18 until the time I was 28, none of these interactions ended up leading to the great love that I was endlessly searching for. Read more

What Men Want: 6 Traits Men Look For In a Woman

1. Character

Being truly beautiful has nothing to do with your external appearance, but with your inner beauty.
Man look for the woman that look good as they do into being genuine and real.
They love women who have senses of humor and don’t take life so seriously, laugh with friends and with them. So, be yourself. Read more

5 Signs He Is Not The One

Look at five deal-breakers that could be the reason you haven’t yet committed.

1. You don’t like who he becomes when he gets stressed out

Having a man in your life who is able to give you positivity is valuable. We all feel the pressures and anxieties from work, school, family and health issues. Consider how the new man in your life manages acute stressors. Now, times that by five. This will give you a fairly accurate picture of how he might manage stress after marriage and children. If you don’t like what you imagine, consider leaving the relationship. Yes, people can grow and change, but in case your man doesn’t make sure you’re okay with his natural response to stress. Read more

Just broke up? 8 tips that will help

And this challenging phase came. Where for a relationship or a wedding the ending titles fell, you do not feel well at all and do not know what to do.

Undoubtedly, it is one of the most challenging intervals for women – unless it is a relief that relieves them. Everything suddenly changes.

1. “Seek yourself. Think what led you to separation. You have experienced anger and frustration, and you also have your participation in the situation. ” Read more

4 main reasons why new relationships usually fail

1. Unrealistic expectations:

You are brokenhearted and cursed him for his new girlfriend … and now you expect from an unknown to fill your gaps! This cannot be done! Logic says that as expectations grow, each time you have to take a step ahead! Agreed, but at present, this theory has no benefit to the following simple reason: It is not that man is crap, is that you do not have realistic expectations! He is indeed not perfect, but may prove ideal for you! Of course most of the time it is challenging to discover simply because of prior separation and once again you are brokenhearted, and of course you think “All men are pigs!” Read more

10 tips for keeping your marriage alive

1.       Trust

The key to a healthy relationship is trust. When you love someone you have to trust him, believe in every word he says and makes him feel free. For example, when your mate wants to go for a drink with friends, there is no need to worry. You may be married, but this doesn’t mean that you have to forget about anyone else. Both of you want to spend time on your own or/and with your friends. This is normal. Read more

Money and Marriage. How do you deal with it?

Well, let’s talk about money. Yes, money!

We can’t do without money, and we work all day and all night for it. Some of us spend a lot of money every day, some of us don’t. The question is how do you manage and spend your money when you are married?

Money plays a significant role in a relationship, especially when you are married. A severe financial situation can bring a lot of problems between you and your husband in your everyday life, while good financial condition can make your life much more comfortable. All you need to do is to program and prioritize your needs. Read more

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